1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:00,000 2 00:00:05,140 --> 00:00:08,080 Yeah . How you doing ? Sharper Top and 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:10,390 Criteria results . And we're done of 4 00:00:10,390 --> 00:00:12,660 the Mystic Marriott . Just finished up 5 00:00:12,740 --> 00:00:16,300 one box . That's funny . We've been 6 00:00:16,300 --> 00:00:18,356 married for 10 years and we have two 7 00:00:18,356 --> 00:00:20,522 kids . We did attend a strong Bonds in 8 00:00:20,522 --> 00:00:22,522 the past , and we were newlyweds at 9 00:00:22,522 --> 00:00:24,578 that point . So reaching our 10 year 10 00:00:24,578 --> 00:00:27,090 anniversary , we saw it was time we 11 00:00:27,090 --> 00:00:29,090 were noticing signs in our marriage 12 00:00:29,090 --> 00:00:30,979 that it was time to reconnect and 13 00:00:30,979 --> 00:00:33,201 remembered some of the benefits that we 14 00:00:33,201 --> 00:00:36,130 received early on . Yeah , then wanted 15 00:00:36,140 --> 00:00:38,880 time to really discuss without Children 16 00:00:38,890 --> 00:00:42,570 and focus on time between Trevor and I 17 00:00:42,580 --> 00:00:44,636 really sit down and talk some things 18 00:00:44,636 --> 00:00:46,760 out , learn new communication skills 19 00:00:47,140 --> 00:00:49,196 because what we were doing , we were 20 00:00:49,196 --> 00:00:51,760 falling a little stale . Uh , it's kind 21 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:53,982 of got to the point where the Army were 22 00:00:53,982 --> 00:00:56,204 constantly training for something , and 23 00:00:56,204 --> 00:00:58,316 she's honestly training to get better 24 00:00:58,316 --> 00:01:00,204 at her work . But we never really 25 00:01:00,204 --> 00:01:02,770 focused on making us so trying to come 26 00:01:02,770 --> 00:01:04,770 here . Our whole goal is to try and 27 00:01:04,770 --> 00:01:06,659 learn some new techniques to have 28 00:01:06,659 --> 00:01:09,200 figured that out , not not be so quick 29 00:01:09,210 --> 00:01:11,490 to jump at each other , and our June 30 00:01:11,630 --> 00:01:13,760 basically make it a better place for 31 00:01:13,770 --> 00:01:16,560 kids . What has been recent 32 00:01:17,740 --> 00:01:20,370 come here ? This opportunity has been 33 00:01:20,370 --> 00:01:23,100 huge , absolutely recommended . Stated 34 00:01:23,110 --> 00:01:25,770 any other couple out there being around 35 00:01:25,770 --> 00:01:27,992 other couples in this in the military , 36 00:01:28,190 --> 00:01:30,810 I think it's gonna be huge variance for 37 00:01:30,810 --> 00:01:33,088 you . It would be around other spouses , 38 00:01:33,088 --> 00:01:35,850 that kind of understanding . So , um 39 00:01:36,340 --> 00:01:38,451 yeah , and I think that to connecting 40 00:01:38,451 --> 00:01:40,730 with couples who are also eager to be 41 00:01:40,730 --> 00:01:42,690 better and be , you know , have a 42 00:01:42,690 --> 00:01:44,857 stronger marriage , whether it be with 43 00:01:44,857 --> 00:01:47,023 your Children or people who don't have 44 00:01:47,023 --> 00:01:49,079 Children . But having a similar role 45 00:01:49,079 --> 00:01:50,912 where we're all kind of positive 46 00:01:50,912 --> 00:01:52,634 approach and such a time where 47 00:01:52,634 --> 00:01:54,690 negativity is strangely strengthened 48 00:01:54,690 --> 00:01:57,860 sometimes . So it was , really , you 49 00:01:57,860 --> 00:02:00,060 know , although it's working on our 50 00:02:00,060 --> 00:02:01,893 marriage to work on it in such a 51 00:02:01,893 --> 00:02:04,450 positive setting with people who also 52 00:02:04,460 --> 00:02:07,720 are a similar military back , it was 53 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:09,720 really helpful in the wealth we got 54 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,880 over to Fox holes for a long . It was a 55 00:02:12,890 --> 00:02:15,001 fun little treat for us because we've 56 00:02:15,001 --> 00:02:17,223 done it once before , a long time ago . 57 00:02:17,223 --> 00:02:19,446 So it was kind of a good way to kind of 58 00:02:19,446 --> 00:02:21,730 go back down memory lane . Uh , being 59 00:02:21,730 --> 00:02:23,730 able to stay here at the Marriott . 60 00:02:23,730 --> 00:02:26,008 It's been a fantastic food was awesome . 61 00:02:26,008 --> 00:02:29,070 So all those are huge bones and make 62 00:02:29,070 --> 00:02:31,530 you want to come back and do it . And 63 00:02:31,530 --> 00:02:34,120 also currently being in financial piece 64 00:02:34,130 --> 00:02:36,297 when we're trying to really budget our 65 00:02:36,297 --> 00:02:38,970 money and maybe not having as much fun 66 00:02:38,970 --> 00:02:41,026 right now , working through the baby 67 00:02:41,026 --> 00:02:43,520 baby steps made it really affordable to 68 00:02:43,530 --> 00:02:45,810 have a few days away together and not 69 00:02:45,820 --> 00:02:48,042 have the burden of coming home with the 70 00:02:48,042 --> 00:02:51,400 bill , you know , very , very helpful 71 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,540 to relax on that portion . Really ? 72 00:02:53,540 --> 00:02:57,240 Just enjoy each other . Yeah , 73 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:00,240 yeah .